In a repetitive slump

I'm not sure how many people feel this way. But I want to say that I feel like my relationship continues to hit repetitive slumps. This means that everytime you hit a rough patch that it seems to be the same things happening over and over again. I'm not sure how one would go about getting out of this repetition but I'm am very open to some suggestions seeing as my other half an I haven't really been seeing eye to eye on anything. I don't like having to repeat myself so I really hate having to be a part of repetitive bad habits. It's almost like an episode of the twilight zone around here. I really don't know what else I can do personally. Seems like everything I say or do is looked over like it doesn't matter or can't sway the opinion of the financial majority. Sigh....